My boyfriend went to las vegas and didn’t tell me until today. What should I do?
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Amber asked:
I thought my boyfriend went to visit his family (which he did for a day) and then he flew to las vegas for his friend’s wedding. He lied to me all week and made me think he was still with his family until he finally admitted he lied and said his flight was cancelled because of the snow so he is driving back. Should I break up with him? We have been having issues anyway…
Nicholas
I thought my boyfriend went to visit his family (which he did for a day) and then he flew to las vegas for his friend’s wedding. He lied to me all week and made me think he was still with his family until he finally admitted he lied and said his flight was cancelled because of the snow so he is driving back. Should I break up with him? We have been having issues anyway…
Nicholas
March 23rd, 2009 at 11:48 am
He will do it again, so be prepared to live with it, or do the same thing and test his jealousy.
March 25th, 2009 at 1:38 pm
LIES ITS NOT GOOD.Im sure he went to the cabaret.Check his credit card
March 25th, 2009 at 8:30 pm
Do you want to date a liar? Boot the bum.
March 26th, 2009 at 7:14 pm
i wouldn’t go to that extreme so he went to a friends wedding unless he is just telling you that and went to Vegas for a girl but you have no way of knowing that so just talk to him and get him interested in you again but as for the lieing thing if he has to lie there is something wrong and you need to work it out or tell him whats up
March 28th, 2009 at 5:45 pm
He’s defintely cheating on you- or wants to. If you want to date some that respects you and you trust, find someone new.
April 1st, 2009 at 1:44 am
You know, perhaps you should call this act of lying the last straw. Only becuase you’ve been having problems anyway.
April 1st, 2009 at 9:38 pm
Get off line and get on the next flight
April 4th, 2009 at 10:20 am
First, this is strange that you could not go with him at the wedding. (were there really a wedding?) He might have not invited you because he feared that you would do something he wouldn’t like. (refuse to go/complaining about anything/could not have fun at wedding??) If that is the case, I think you should have a serious talk, if not, just ask him why he lied to you BUT!!! if you want an honest answer, DON’T do it while you are mad, angry or if you just want to give hell to him. Sit in front of him, look at him and ask him… Then you will know what to do…
April 7th, 2009 at 4:32 pm
I think that I would definitely take a “breather” from the relationship. If you were already having problems, then lying for a week doesn’t help matters any. This was very disrespectful and you have to ask yourself, would he have told you the truth if his flight hadn’t been canceled? I think that you should take some time for yourself to find out what is best for you. If you don’t have trust, you don’t have anything. Good Luck!
April 8th, 2009 at 10:27 am
Once he lies and you let him get away with it then he will cotinue to do so. Don’t get in the cycle of being w/someone that lies. There are better men out there that won’t lie and would probably have taken you to Vegas to. If you have more than this issue then yes leave. It will only get worse. Merry Christmas!
April 10th, 2009 at 7:49 pm
HE LIED AND HE WILL DO IT AGAIN, SO ITS UP TO YOU TO LIVE WITH IT, OR LEAVE…… MAYBE HE DESERVED ANOTHER CHANCE..IF HE DO IT AGAIN THEN YOU DECIDE.
April 13th, 2009 at 11:24 pm
aaah….if he told you he was going to Vegas for a friends wedding, you would’ve wanted to go with him. I mean, most wedding invites include the phrase And Guest.
and when I read this, the first thing I thought was….oh, he wanted to have Single guy fun.
He was being completely selfish.
If you decide to stay with him, don’t be surprised if he pulls more stunts like that in the future. And, do you really want someone who is not trustworthy?
April 16th, 2009 at 7:06 am
i think u should break up…
April 18th, 2009 at 4:13 pm
big red truck!! what happens in vegas stays in vegas… trust me girl, its NOT good
April 21st, 2009 at 5:02 pm
The writing is on the wall isn’t it?
April 22nd, 2009 at 11:28 am
Sounds like the proverbial straw that breaks the camel’s back. If you have other issues, this latest development is as good a reason to end it as any.
April 25th, 2009 at 2:23 am
He is only your boyfriend not your husband. Yes he lied to you and that is not good. But he did tell you the truth otherwise you would of never known. If you want to break up with him then do so.
April 26th, 2009 at 11:41 pm
keep him as your BF if you want to but do not make him your husband. it is all about trust.
April 28th, 2009 at 3:15 am
My boyfriend lies to me about the women he sees. He makes friends with women then does not awnser his phone (lies about that i busted him) and then tells me he will not talk to them anymore (lies about that busted him) and he says he will not tell me the truth about who he meets/sees as friends (all attractive women) and the only time I find out the truth is when I am suspcious and ask him about it and pry it out of him. Now he is a liar and there is no way for him to change becuse he doesnt see the problem. Your boyfriend didnt want you going to vegas with him and didnt want you to know he was there to ask questions..mabye he was screweing around. Either way he is a liar and unless you want to be stuck with someone who is going to break your heart over and over get out. Please get out. I have a baby with this boy, I thought it would change him, but he just lies and lies and actually only is honest about not telling the truth. You desreve better, and so do I.
April 30th, 2009 at 10:50 pm
well if you think that you should then by all means…..but before you do.
you take a trip and tell him your going to go visit someone ,just do as he did to you,let him feel what did frist.then you can leave him if you choose to.